But first, you have to ask yourself if one is really committed to the success. If one really rejects the failure or is identified with him. Not all people who complain and lament its failure are identified with success. Failure therefore have to study it, understand it and then reject that part of its substance that deserves to be dropped or modified. No other. Stay with the lesson, with bitterness, with pain. They are good companions, they will be your reliable guides. But to make the passes with them it is imperative to think with responsibility, to assess, differentiate and that not be nuble us view with illusions, or mirages. You have to know that we are not nor will be a Cork in the sea. That we are constantly deciding how to act. And the decisions for various reasons. Sometimes actuated motivated by a thirst for success. Other times we stop by laziness, lack of faith, lack of energy or involved in a negative energy. At we develop techniques to enhance the action of the floral energies, those remedies of the soul. Many people resorting to the set of Bach decide take Gentian to combat the experience of failure, to avoid the sadness, and to forget the despair. Resorting to Gentian is right but aspire to generate an amnesia with regard to what has been is to aspire to a loss. My recommendation is: do not aspire to be forgotten. Never discard what is theirs or what was directed to you. Worth having it and retain it. Not subject to the emotions that can bring. Emotions are made to feel them said Bach, are the thermostat of your life, the compass that will guide you well. His spiritual counselors, their inner guides speak to you clear through emotions, sensations, feelings, symptoms. It is worth learning its language. When you do not take to note that silence them is never a smart measure.